Thursday, August 29, 2013

Janet is dahak dahak

My kin called Janet "dahak dahak" tonight.  I laughed because the description was very accurate.   Dahak dahak means a glutton.  The dictionary defines a glutton as one given habitually to greedy and voracious eating and drinking.  And my dog Janet is a glutton.  She is motivated primarily by food.  Now do not tell me that all dogs are like that because our other dog Chewy is not like that at all.  Chewy often would have left over from her bowl.  She would not approach every person that offers her food.  Chewy would even occasionally refuse to eat tasty people food.  But everything on Janet's mind is about food.  When she is brought out in the yard to relieve herself, she would be going first to check on Chewy's bowl to see if there are left over food there.  Then she would forage on the grass/dirt for any food that Chewy might have refused to finish eating.  She would end up eating so much dirt that it already gave her constipation and bleeding anus from defecating those pebbles and dirt.  When  I walk her, she would also be busy sniffing for anything to eat.  She only consistently obey command to sit and stay if there is treats involved.  When she hears a container being opened or utensils clucking or people eating/chewing, she would be running towards that sound in anticipation that there is food to be had.  She would eating 99% of thing offered to her.  She in fact have vomited a few of these items because it obviously did not agree with her GI.  She is already overweight from me indulging her begging habit.  If I do not control her eating, she would be a morbidly obese dog.

Sunday, August 25, 2013

Serena at David Letterman

The most recent guest appearance of Serena at David Letterman show.  She looks lovely.  She seems ready for the US Open.  I wish her the best and I hope she wins it.

Thursday, August 22, 2013

Discriminate publicly vs privately

When it comes to surfing online profile in gay social networking sites, I would be dishonest if I say that I never discriminate against others.  In as much as I try to be more evolved and worldly, I am still a slave to my taste and desires.  I know what I fancy and I know what does not float my boat.  At the same time I am civilized enough to know that there are tactful way of discriminating people that is not hurtful and offensive.  I should know better cause I have been discriminated enough publicly.  And it does not feel good to be excluded for being something that I can not change.

So for physical features like race, age, height and weight, I never openly proclaim against them in my online profile.  Same goes for HIV status.  I do not say I only am interested in a certain race, certain age group, HIV negative, certain height or certain weight.  I may have a preference on certain kind in those categories but I just do not feel that need to write them down.  If I get a message from those groups that I do not desire, I consider it a compliment and would thank them accordingly.  Race, age, HIV status, height and weight are features that people can not change.  Although one might argue that weight can be change but it takes time.  So if I have to discriminate, I do it privately.  I just won't chat or exchange messages with those certain groups that I do not fancy.

And then there are things that are purely the choice of an individual that I discriminate publicly in my profile.  That includes profile without face pictures posted.  These people choose to not post a picture so I have no qualm proclaiming that I will not chat with them.  There are also physical features that I will discriminate publicly like facial hair, long hair and ungroomed body hair.  Anybody can change these things easily so if they choose to be that way, it should not be hurtful if I say I am into clean shaven, clean cut, manscaped body hair.  Although I do not mind dating a smoker, there are other people I have seen that discriminate against smokers.  I think it is OK to do that cause a smoker can quit if they really want to.  Same goes for drug users.  If they don't like being discriminated, then quit using drugs.  On rare occasions, I have seen people discriminate against Republicans.  Republicans are not gay friendly so those gay Republicans can choose not to support such a political party.  Religious views, hobbies and sexual activity preference are all choices so if they get discriminated, then so be it.

That is how I am with my online dealings in gay social networking sites.  I let common sense dictate my online behavior.  As Confucius say in the Golden Rule: "One should treat others as one would like others to treat oneself."

Monday, August 19, 2013

Tennis stars in the buff

Wow just look at John Isner posing in the buff for ESPN.  He may be almost freakishly tall but he looks great here.  Just the type I like.  Lean and smooth.

Here is Serena posing also in the buff for ESPN.  Many of her haters call her a man or silverback gorilla.  But looking at these photo, one can see she is all woman.  Curves and all.  And might I add she dolled up pretty well too.

Friday, August 16, 2013

Scott turned out to be a married man.

Every time I pass by a Quality Inn or a Ramada along San Fernando Boulevard, I imagine that Scott and I could possibly stay there to hang out.

Scott is this 50 yo guy I met in Chicago.  He travels for work to Chicago but lives in Orange County.  That time when I met him, he told me he was single and not yet out as a gay man.  Scott and I met twice while he was in town and we would hang out at my place.  I did like Scott and I have hoped to see more of him when I finally move to Los Angeles.  Before I got to move, I was able to make 2 trips to LA.  In those 2 occasions, Scott pretty much blew me off.  He did say he wanted to hang out when I texted him about my trip.  One time while we were exchanging text messages, I asked if I could be his friend in Facebook but he pretty much ignored that request.  I did not think much of it.  I thought since he was still in the closet, he was just being very discreet.  I have suspected that he may have met another guy and is no longer available to hang out with me.  But when I asked him, he reiterated that he was still single and would like to hang out again.

When I finally moved to LA, I texted Scott and asked if he would ever invite me to his place in OC so we could hang out again.  He texted me back with a confession that he is actually married to a woman and they have two children.  Now I realized why he says he like to hang out and yet blow me off.  Now I know why he won't share his Facebook with me.  Every thing seems to make sense to me.  Along with his confession was a repeat proclamation that he still wanted to hang out but would understand if I did not want anymore.  I texted him back saying we can not hang out at home since I live with my kins.  I am very conflicted about wanting to see him again and not having anything to do with a married man.  My brain tells me to just forget about him and yet another part of me hoped that he would offer that we hang out at a hotel.  So every time I pass by the chains of Hotels near my home, I get to be reminded of that hope.  I feel I am not being true to my morals if I see him and knowingly get involved with a married man.  It was different with I still did not know.  For now I can be at ease since I will not text him again and I do not think Scott will text me also.

Wednesday, August 14, 2013

I won't let Google censor my blog.

I have been a blogger for years now and I thought I should try earning money from it.  Blogger can put Google  AdSense in my blog and I could earn money each time somebody reads my blog or something.  Upon further investigation, I discovered that there are certain restrictions attached to this "earning" from the Google AdSense.  Here are the rules that Google has.

Sites with Google ads may not include or link to:
  • Pornography, adult or mature content
  • Violent content
  • Content related to racial intolerance or advocacy against any individual, group or organisation
  • Excessive profanity
  • Hacking/cracking content
  • Illicit drugs and drug paraphernalia content
  • Sales of beer or hard alcohol
  • Sales of tobacco or tobacco-related products
  • Sales of prescription drugs
  • Sales of weapons or ammunition (e.g. firearms, firearm components, fighting knives, stun guns)
  • Sales of products that are replicas or imitations of designer or other goods
  • Sales or distribution of coursework or student essays
  • Content regarding programs which compensate users for clicking ads or offers, performing searches, surfing websites or reading emails
  • Any other content that is illegal, promotes illegal activity or infringes on the legal rights of others
I probably would be able to comply with all of them but the thought that somebody is going to censor my contents is too unpalatable.  I broke off my ties from my friends' blog because they were censoring me so why should I let another party censor me again?  I want complete control on my blog and that means that I can post racy pictures, say "fuck" "bitch" or "cunt", and express hateful angry words at another if I want to.  This is MY blog and I can say anything if I want to.

Sunday, August 11, 2013