Tuesday, July 30, 2013

Lazy Song video by Bruno Mars is so fun

Today I don't feel like doing anything
I just wanna lay in my bed
Don't feel like picking up my phone
So leave a message at the tone
'Cause today I swear I'm not doing anything.

I'm gonna kick my feet up
Then stare at the fan
Turn the TV on, throw my hand in my pants
Nobody's gonna tell me I can't

I'll be lounging on the couch,
Just chillin' in my snuggie
Click to MTV, so they can teach me how to dougie
'Cause in my castle I'm the freaking man

Oh, yes I said it
I said it
I said it 'cause I can

Today I don't feel like doing anything
I just wanna lay in my bed
Don't feel like picking up my phone
So leave a message at the tone
'Cause today I swear I'm not doing anything

Nothing at all!
Ooh, hoo, ooh, hoo, ooh, ooh-ooh
Nothing at all
Ooh, hoo, ooh, hoo, ooh, ooh-ooh

Tomorrow I'll wake up, do some P90X
Meet a really nice girl, have some really nice sex
And she's gonna scream out: 'This is Great' (Oh my God, this is great!)

I might mess around, and get my college degree
I bet my old man will be so proud of me
But sorry pops, you'll just have to wait

Oh, yes I said it
I said it
I said it 'cause I can

Today I don't feel like doing anything
I just wanna lay in my bed
Don't feel like picking up my phone
So leave a message at the tone
'Cause today I swear I'm not doing anything

No, I ain't gonna comb my hair
'Cause I ain't going anywhere
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no
I'll just strut in my birthday suit
And let everything hang loose
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah

Today I don't feel like doing anything
I just wanna lay in my bed
Don't feel like picking up my phone
So leave a message at the tone
'Cause today I swear I'm not doing anything

Nothing at all
Ooh, hoo, ooh, hoo, ooh, ooh-ooh
Nothing at all
Ooh, hoo, ooh, hoo, ooh, ooh-ooh
Nothing at all

Wednesday, July 24, 2013

My Mercedes convertible post at Facebook.

The other day, while hanging out my my friend Adam, I decided to take a photo on his Mercedes convertible.  Then I thought it would be funny if I post it on Facebook and pretend it was mine.  I was in the mood for a joke and I was curious if people will believe it.  So I wrote on the title of the 3 photos that I traded in my Toyota Prius for a Mercedes convertible.  3 hours later, I got 10 of my friends/family who "Like" the photo and 7 made positive comments about it.  Only one doubted it by saying "For Real?  Nice!"  By then, I decided the joke was over for I took down the entire post and photos relating to the Mercedes.

What have I discovered from this little harmless social experiment of mine?  Well for starters, I learned that many of my friends did not actually know me that well.  Cause had they known me well enough, they would know that I would NEVER buy a Mercedes convertible.  I am way too pragmatic to buy an expensive gas guzzler that can only seat two people.  Also they would know that I am so not the type of person who has the need for speed in my ride.  I also learned from this that I am a boring person who had hardly done any harmless practical joke to others.  If I did it often to my friends, they would have doubted that post from the get go.  Thirdly, I learned that I am a trustworthy person to my friends.  Somebody who should be believed if I said so.  After all, almost all of them believed me.  Or perhaps they were just too polite to doubt me?  Well it was an interesting discovery.  And I am sure no harm came from the joke.

Sunday, July 21, 2013

Serena is different than those screamers.

Yes it is true that Serena can grunt loudly but the difference between her and the other 4 women in the list is her frequency of grunting.  Serena does not grunt all the time.  Only when she hits big or when her emotions are high.  Those other 4 screams at every fucking stroke.  Yes they do and I know cause I watch tennis a lot.

Friday, July 19, 2013

Tattoo on the wrong places.

I know that there are plenty of fetishes out there.  And I respect the individual's self expression.  One of the fetishes that I often see are the tattoo.  There are people that are practically covered by tattoo and they like it.  There are other people who find those tattoo as body art and attractive.  I personally do not find tattoo as sexy or attractive.  One tattoo on the arm is OK but if the whole arm and torso/back is covered with tattoo, that is just too much for me.

Here is an example of a guy that had his whole back and anus tattooed.  There are people out there that find this anal tattoo sexy and erotic.  Sure this guy have admirers of his tattoo no doubt and it is all fun and dandy for now.  But had this guy even thought of how weird his tattoo would look like when he is 80 years old and in a nursing home?  What would the nurses of that nursing home think when they try to clean away his shit and see that anal tattoo.  For sure this guy will be the object of ridicule and laughter.  Maybe this guy has thought of it and does not care.  To each his own.  My only point is we all should think of the repercussion of something so permanent as a tattoo before we commit to it on private areas.  Because private areas does not remain private when one is old and needed help with basic personal functions.

Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Elaborate Wedding proposal, short marriage

Here is an example of an elaborate gay marriage proposal.   I know a guy who proposed to his GF high above in a hot air balloon ride.  He arranged somebody from the ground to write the words "will you marry me" so that his GF saw it from the air ballon ride.  It was very elaborate and must have been expensive.  Even the staged proposal of Kris Humphries to Kim Kardashian was elaborate with rose petals and candles.

Nothing wrong with an elaborate proposal and it shows that the proposing person put some thought and effort on it.  But considering that the recent divorce rate range from 8.1% to 14.2% when comparing the different states, I would rather see a simply proposal and lower divorce rate.  It seems that Americans are so romantic with their marriage proposal but does not really show enough romance and work to keep the marriage.   Kris and Kim were only married for 72 days!  Shorter if it was not for the long divorce settlement.   I say people should work on the marriage and not on the proposal.  I hope this gay couple can stay married once they marry.

Monday, July 15, 2013

Singing man from a previous job.

Very entertaining to watch him get so into the singing.  One can tell that he did a lot of singing at his church in his youth.  His voice is not bad at all even to these day!

Saturday, July 13, 2013

A&F for me no more

I use to like A&F clothes.  I still have sturdy smart looking jacket from A&F.  And I must admit that their ploy of using shirtless good looking young white men as employee/model in their stores and catalog influenced me into buying their clothes.  And in the 90s, I was not the only one who got duped into buying those expensive clothes.  I could remember the time when every gay man online use some form of Abercrombie & Fitch variation as their online screennames when they chat in AOL m4m chatrooms or in Gay.com chatrooms.   Here are some examples:  AFboi, AFitchLakeview75,  AbercrombieGuy, A&FStud25, ChicagoAFboi, etc, etc.  One gets the drift.  This shows the popularity of A&F that every gay man want to create an image via their screenname that they look like the AF models.  Of course most of them don't but I digress.

Then as I get older and wiser, I realized that AF clothes are pretty much one dimensional.  It is the same and does not evolve.  Also I got more discerning that those shirtless good looking men are not enough to trick me into buying clothes from AF.  I also realize that AF sizes are not really friendly for asian men.  Since Asian men have smaller built, I barely was big enough for their size small.  And I am too tall to buy their kid's largest size.  Some of my shorter Asian guy friends at least got that deal working for them.  Evidently I am not alone who got smarter about buying AF clothes.  Now I heard that since AF sales in the USA declined, AF started opening stores in Europe and Asia.   First European store opened in 2007 and first Asian store opened in 2009.  We all know European and Asian are not as big as Americans.  I wonder if AF restructured their sizes to fit the slimmer frames of European and Asian men.

Then there is this controversy with AF recently when the CEO, Michael Jeffies, have been quoted saying that AF are only for cool good looking people.  That AF are not for plus size women.  That essentially AF discriminate the less fit people.  I suppose nothing is wrong with marketing for a certain crowd but seeing Jeffries' ugly appearance just made his discrimination more ridiculous and outrageous.  It is like seeing Hitler killing the non-Aryan race that are not tall, blond and blue eyes when he, Hitler himself, does not look anything Aryan at all.

Controversy or not, I have long stopped buying AF clothes.  I do not even buy from Hollister.  That dimly lit overly perfumed stores of Hollister can't trick me to buy from them.   And why would I use my dollar on a business that does not want me?  I hope this controversy is a wake up call for others.

Thursday, July 11, 2013

Paddy O'Brian part 2

I friend of mine has met Paddy in person.   I wonder when he will introduce me to Paddy????

Monday, July 08, 2013

Boeing 787

I have yet to fly in this awesome plane.  But not Qatar Airline!

Saturday, July 06, 2013

In the Family: the review

Just saw this gay movie entitled "In the Family".  It is a story about Cody and Joey and their son Chip.  Cody's wife died while giving birth to Chip.  Cody and Joey got together 7 months later and they have been together for the past 6 years.  Cody and Joey are dads to Chip.  Then one day Cody died of a car accident.  His only Will was written when Chip was still an infant.  Cody named his sister Aileen as legal guardian to Chip and executor of his estate.  Things got bad between Aileen and Joey which resulted to Aileen getting custody of Chip.  Chip tried to take legal recourse to reclaim Joey but the law was clearly not on his side.  Then Joey encountered this wise lawyer who adviced him that things in real life are not necessarily applicable to what the law says.  He advised Joey to get to talk with Aileen since they have not been talking lately.  Joey requested a deposition with Aileen and in return for that deposition, he willingly gave up all his claims on any joint property and finances he and Cody held when they were together.   During the deposition, Joey was able to explain things to Aileen and got things ironed out.  Aileen came to her senses and gave Chip back to Joey.

The story taught us an important lesson that talking, instead of legal actions, can often solved plenty of interpersonal issues that we have.  This gave me hope on the capacity for goodness in each and every one of us.  I like this aspect of the story.  What I did not like was the lack of editing.  The movie ran 3 hours long and there were plenty of scenes that could have been cut out or cut short.  It was so long that I almost gave up finishing the movie.

The story also made me reflect on a very real aspect of gay relationship.  It reinforced my belief why gay civil marriage should be legalized.  If Cody and Joey were legally married, Joey would have a lot more legal recourse to keep Chip with him.  Very often the surviving half of a gay relationship are swept aside by the family of the deceased half.  Just very unfair.

Because the story was so long and boring, not even the "lesson" of the story could redeem it for me.  I give this a 1.75 star out of 5.

Thursday, July 04, 2013

Happy 4th!

I DO!!!

  HE'LL DO!!!

Tuesday, July 02, 2013

Still gross out by those bushy armpits.

I came across this picture and I don't know who this guy is.  Maybe some porn star.  The reason why I am blogging about this guy is to show how gross out I am by his very dark very bushy armpit hair.  Yuck.  Just imagine the bacteria growing in those dense hair creating a very strong body odor.  That is just the hygienic portion for starters.  Don't get me going on the aesthetic aspect of it.  Even the tanned complexion of this guy is making a big contrast on the dark bushy hair.  It would be less ugly looking if he had light colored hair.  It looks like somebody sprayed black paint on his skin.

What can I say?  I did not like it before, I still don't like it now.

Monday, July 01, 2013

Friends of My very own Pensieve

These are people I know that read my blog.  Some may consistently read it.  Some may sporadically read it.  I do know for a fact that they read it.

1.  Hawking from Singapore
2.  Gen from Florida
3.  Greg from Chicago
4.  Sisters Lani, Lynn and Cez.

I have said before that my blogging is for me but it still amuses me to hear from them about things they read on my blog.  I thank them for reading and I hope my blog gives them equal amusement!