How dare those lesbians

I was just watching this old episode of "friends" where Ross' ex-wife Carol was pregnant with his child. And in this episode, Carol was with her lesbian partner Susan. They were arguing about the possible names for the baby and the last name of the baby. The two lesbian were deciding together what to name the child and they wanted to use their hyphenated last names for the child. The two lesbians were excluding Ross from these important decisions and from using his last name.

It really annoyed me that they would do that to Ross. It was Ross' biological child and if anybody had the deciding authority about the child, it should be Ross and Carol. Not Carol and her lesbian lover Susan! Susan had no fucking right to exclude Ross in the decision making. She, the spermless person, had no contribution in the creation of this child. If she wanted to exclude Ross, then she and Carol should have gone to a sperm bank and got themselves pregnant. Carol can't just get herself pregnant with her ex-husband and exclude him now that she is with her lesbian lover. That is fucking wrong! GGrrrrr!