online insecurities

We all have some form of insecurities or another. Nobody is that secure about himself. And I have noticed several ways guys manifest their insecurities online.

> That guy I mentioned in my earlier blog was so insecure about his hairy body that a mere inquiry about it triggered an angry defensive reaction. Obviously he is not happy about it.

> A chicken hawk guy who is insecure about getting older would often claim to be younger so he can still be desirable to the youngins that he so much covets. If he does not lie about it, he would conceal that information in his profile until being asked about.

> A short guy who is insecure about his height will lie about being taller in his profile than he really is. My 5'4" friend has a neighbor, who is no taller than herself, claims in his online profile to be 5'6". We totally busted his lie.

> A guy who is insecure about his ethnicity will often omit writing his race in his profile. And he would have of course a headless picture that would not reveal his true ethnic background. Of course that is very counter productive if the object of his affection has racial preference.

> On a similar token, a guy who is insecure about his face will only publish headless shirtless shots in his profile. It may work a bit if he has an awesome body. But in many instances of headless shirtless pics I have seen, the body is so unspectacular. Likewise, a guy who has body image issues will have all head shots or photos that conceal his body.

> A guy who is insecure about his job will often be as vague as possible when asked about it.

> A guy who is insecure about the size of his member will sometimes evolve to be total bottoms or total oral bottoms. That way the attention during sex is never diverted to their member. Sometimes, he develops a preference to a racial group that is not notorious to have big members (black men). That way when they are both naked, his small member will not appear to be that small. Size is after all relative.

I am not at all saying I have no insecurities but at least I don't make it so transparent. Some of us are not that stupid not to notice after all. And also as I mentioned, it is very counter productive to lie or conceal. The truth will always eventually come out and that is just stupid.